Am I trans enough? It’s probably one of the most pervasive questions for trans and otherwise gender nonconforming people and the answer is “yes.”
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I want to use a toy for myself. My boyfriend is asking me not to.
A partner telling you not to use toys is engaging in controlling behavior. You have agency over your own sexuality.
Sex Education Could Be a Lifeline for Brazilian LGBTQIA+ Youth
In Brazil, attacks on comprehensive sexuality education are cutting LGBQTIA+ young people off from critical resources.
Birth Control and Emetophobia: A Guide
Don’t let fears of nausea and vomiting hold you back from using birth control: You have lots of options!
How do I move on from situationships?
How can someone break a cycle of situationships to start making something different? It’s got a lot to do with boundaries.
Did pills make me ace?
Hi Bea,
First of all, congratulations on taking a big step towards managing your anxiety. I know firsthand how hard it is to reach out for help and talk about treatment options and I’m proud of you! I also unfortunately know firsthand how side effects from psychiatric medications can affect your body and emotions — and also, how mental health conditions can interact with things like sexual desire.
Here’s the very short answer to your question: Pills didn’t make you ace!
There are a few things to unpack here: how your mental health can affect your feelings and sexuality; how psychiatric
A Reminder and Some Resources
Embracing and accepting ourselves can be a healing journey, one that honors our unique experiences and the inherent value of our bodies.
PDA: A Way to Practice Self-Compassion
Just like riding a bike, self-compassion is a skill that must be practiced.
How to Rebuild Trust with Your Body
Trust for our bodies is a two-way street just like trust is between people. Our bodies learn to trust us as we learn to trust them, and we often need to make some important changes to achieve this.
Social Threat and Body Shame
A key first step towards self-compassion is feeling safe from harm. We can achieve this by identifying what we need and believing we deserve it. No one is better suited to support ourselves than ourselves.